Back to 2012, I
did one mistake that cost me nearly 3 years.
This is a story
when I was 15-16 years old. I was young and wasn’t experienced at all. I fell
in love for the first time, at the first sight. He was different than boys I
knew so it kind of grap me. His style, way of talking or doing things, that he
was very brave and could do anything. We
started dating and everything was really nice and quiet fun. We met in the
morning and afternoon and even at night and we always did fun things together.
But this didn’t
last for too long, only one week later he changed and didn’t even call me or
answer my calls. But I’d never gave up because I was a young, youthful
girl madly in love. Every time I wanted to say this is not going to go like
this he always found the tricky ways to make me stay. Of course he cheated on
me God knows how many times but I never wanted to know.
My family never wanted me to be with him of course for good
reasons because he was the bad guy and drug dealing sometimes just to make
money to look after his self and his family. My family learnt these things
before me, and again I didn’t want to let go. Time pass by and it was a
beautiful sunny day when I decided to dye my hair to blond with a hairdresser
friend of mine. He was living in the same area as my boyfriend and they were
familiar with each other. When we were on our ways to go and get hair dye, my
boyfriend saw us and keep coming behind and wanted me to go with him for half
an hour so I said ‘well alright’ and gave my bag with all my stuff to my friend
since I was going to go there.
When I was with my boyfriend his phone rang and it was a
girl that I know and she was calling my boyfriend “baby, darling, my love…” so
I got annoyed by him being a cheater for the first time. I grab the phone and
said ‘hey darling it’s me and this is my boyfriend we must met some time and
have a coffee” she was shocked and my boyfriend was in panic! When I stood up
and wanted to leave the house he kept coming behind me with the car. I didn’t
want to talk to him but he was saying something like she is nothing to him and
he just loves me and he wants to give me a ring. This was the moment I got more
annoyed and stopped walking and started yelling at him, that from the beginning
I knew what he was up to but this was so much and I don’t want to see him ever
again. At the same moment my mom and dad came with the car and stopped in the
middle of the road thinking that I was in the car and we still together ( we
were but … ) My mom was shouting, screaming and swearing at him and my dad slap
him across his face three times, but he didn’t do anything. They grab me and
take me to my granny’s house, carried on screaming and slapping me. So I got
tired and I grab a knife and I said ıf you come behind me I will stab you, and
I started running to my boyfriend’s house. When I arrived bare foot crying with
a knife, he made me sit next to him and gave me a glass of water. After 5-10
minutes he wanted to take me home and I begged him not to and we can be
together forever but he didn’t want me …
Now he regrets what
he has done and he still loves me … But It’s too late.
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